A child’s unjustified rejection of a loving parent caused through repeated negative psychological manipulation by their other parent (or main caregiver) is not a ‘gender issue’. Our research finds that both fathers and mothers can alienate their children (Access report). Yet we continue to see a proliferation of gendered ‘research’ reports and social media misrepresentation which position parental alienation only as ‘a means for abusive fathers to gain access to children’, or ‘pseudo-science’ written by a Paedophile.
This increases public confusion and dangerously misrepresents the reality.
There are tragic implications resulting from this gendered misinformation. Children, precious and vulnerable, are being used as weapons in divorce or separation and being ferociously psychologically damaged in the process.
Part of this propaganda campaign, which hides and distorts serious psychological child abuse, is to libel the child psychiatrist Richard Gardner and position him as a ‘Paedophile’ (he wasn’t) and a man who took children only from ‘protective mothers’ (he didn’t). See the facts here.
The aberrant parental behaviours which we refer to as parental alienation long preceded Gardner and adults who were alienated as children are now speaking out. This cannot be hidden any longer.
Those who deny it and thus enable this particularly insidious form of family abuse to continue, are now complicit.
We repeat the difference between parental alienation and other forms of abuse.
The attachment-related pathology of a child rejecting a parent, is a clear symptom indicator of pathogenic parenting. It can only be caused by either:
Point one is well understood. We ALL understand the imperative of protecting children from severe parental abuse and/or neglect.
Point two is not. In layman’s terms, it means that the normal family hierarchy is being inverted to become parent-child versus parent. Haley called it the ‘perverse triangle’ because that is exactly what it is.
It is a terrifying place for a child to be. Suddenly they have been prematurely promoted into a mini-adult and forced to make decisions far beyond their level of comprehension and turned against a much-loved parent who has been stripped of their natural authority and parental responsibility. The child is expected to judge the adequacy of that parent, while subjected to intense psychological manipulation of their thoughts and feelings and held captive to coercive control.
Listen to the devastation caused to Corrine during her childhood through alienation, which led to suicide ideation before the age of TEN…